GOOD MEMBERS OF SOCİETY
Societies made by so many different communities. Children are the youngest individuals of the societies. The meaning of youngest, sometimes can be the people who need to educate very well. In that point, the adults divided to 2 groups. The first group think that; ‘Children can be extremely good members of society at schools’. The other group think that; ’The best place to educate children is their home’.
Family is the smallest community in the social life. The stubborn fact is that, education is starting with families. According to studies, Parents shouldn’t impose on their truth to children because the social life’s rules are changing by going. Parents should show which things bad and which things good for general society and also there are several academical studies about this subject. When we investigated the thesis that studied about this subject, we saw that the resources also differed in their thesis. The thesis showed us that, in every part of life, effects of the families is continuing. The effects are starting in mother’s womb. While parents show their love dotingly to their babies, it is effecting in a good side. Otherwise, if parents smoke, drink alcohol or quarrels by loudly in front of the babies, that is effecting the subconscious of the babies. When they grow up and become members of society, they will be self-enclosed and valetudinary individuals. Those children are more likely to be people who bother people, exact a tribute, beg, than people who grew up in other healthy environments. When children started to go to schools, teachers may see those effects in children. As a matter of fact, for the people who are in second group, the schools are useful places for children to show their characters. Families can observe behaviours of children how they educated the children. When we come to first group, if parents didn’t be careful about their children, in other words, if parents let everything to educators and do not analyse behaviour of children, they can encounter with unintended consequences. Educators surely can teach science and social societies rules to children. But, They can’t be able to teach purely one by one children. There are on an average 20-25 child in the classrooms so it can be hard to roll out the red carpet for every child. School or another education places have advantages for observe, analyse, discern and effect children. Those advantages listed below;
- Children can be more social individuals at schools.
- Easy to have confidence.
- The best place to learn being respectful.
- Learning what is the benefits of sharing.
- Learning how to live in regular societies.
- Because of like those reasons, schools are impactful places for children.
As far as I'm concerned, the people who advocating those two assertion have reportedly correct. Schools are great places for children to improve their capability, a philosophy of life, self-improvement with living in society. Homes are strictly private for children too. Parents can improve cognitive development of the children at home. While children in 2 years old, their emotional intelligence is improving and while children in 3 years old, their mathematical intelligence is improving. Hence, we should say they are just children and treat randomly. We need to be conscious of that. All of things that we dwelled on, effects the children about being a good member of society.